Accomplishments

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I feel like I have gotten a lot done so far today. Isn’t it funny how once you are staying at home with your kid(s) the definition of “a lot” totally changes?

Today I:

-Washed the cloth diapers, dried the inserts and prefolds, hung the covers to dry
-Started a second load of laundry
-Put almost a full basket of laundry away (Bailey helped me- she tried to put every item in her pajama drawer but it was so sweet that she wanted to help. She finally at least learned where to put socks. I should probably have her help more often. She loved it so much!)
-Put about 10 eBay packages out for the mail… only about 100 to go I think!
-Cleaned the kitchen, mostly
-Unloaded the dishwasher
-Took the trash and recycle down to the garage, where I found that my husband STILL has not brought our trashcan in from last Friday. Now that’s classy.
-Made plans for Thursday with my friend Casey and her daughter Addison

And more importantly, I:

-Kissed Bailey’s soft, puffy, wonderful cheeks at least 25 times
-Held her on my lap to read stories
-Taught her how to put her socks in the sock drawer and how to put dirty clothes in the basket- and had fun doing it!
-Ate Alpha-Bits cereal while sitting on the kitchen floor with Bailey and feeding each other the letters
-Changed three diapers
-Attempted to make a healthy lunch for my daughter (at least she ate the yogurt and banana)
-Got lots of hugs without even asking for them
-Danced to the intro on a new Dora video, several times

Some people think that once you “give up your career” and stay home, you become “just a mom.” I have had feelings from time to time, like all I have is my daughter and my life revolves around her. At times, that has made me feel inadequate or like I am not doing enough. But looking back at my day of accomplishments, I realize again that there is nothing I would rather be doing. There is nothing more important than taking care of my daughter, raising her myself, being with her to give her all those hugs and build her self-confidence, and enjoy the little things with her.


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  1. Andria and Co. on March 2, 2009 7:17 pm

    She’s so sweet!
    I actually had a productive Monday also. I think it helps the rest of the week if your Mondays go well. Now, Blake is tearing up all the cleaning and organizing I accomplished today. Oh well. You win some, you lose some.

  2. Casey on March 2, 2009 7:27 pm

    Absolutely Tara. Your most rewarding job is to be at home with Bailey. Every time she says something smart (like the alphabet, or part of it!!) or is kind to another child you can be proud that you raised her to be that way. Congrats on all you accomplished today. I’m super jealous! My big day will be Wednesday.

  3. Beth on March 2, 2009 7:27 pm

    I couldn’t agree more. I now work 3 days a week and I’m at home w/Adam Tu. & Th. Even though I enjoy my job, there’s nothing better or more rewarding than being with my little love all day.
    By the way, I had that Fisher Price desk (that exact one!) and loved it!!! :)

  4. marty on March 2, 2009 9:07 pm

    Well said, Tara. You’re doing all of that and growing your Avon business too. I think it’s awesome that you have found something you like doing that doesn’t interfere with your full-time job of being Bailey’s mama.

  5. Alisha on March 2, 2009 10:14 pm

    That’s great! My biggest dream is to become a stay at home mom and to be with my daughters 24/7, but it isn’t in the cards right now. I hope one day. You are one lucky mom.

  6. Radish on March 4, 2009 2:57 pm

    I’m envious of your job…

  7. Heather on March 5, 2009 1:50 pm

    You are awesome! That’s a ton of stuff to accomplish, and none of it is easy. I hate that people forget that.

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